Sacraments FAQ
We are happy to answer all your questions.
Do I have to be a Catholic to have my child baptized / confirmed / receive Holy Communion?
No, you do not need to be a catholic to prepare for any of the above.
What am I expected to do as a parent requesting baptism / confirmation / First Holy Communion?
Let the parish know which sacrament you would like to receive for yourself or your children.
Who will taking care of my children?
Children will be looked after by the priests, catechists and parish helpers all of which will be aware of safeguarding issues. Any left in charge of the children or on their own will have been checked under safeguarding legislation.
How much does it cost to receive a Sacrament?
The sacraments are free to receive and some have an associated cost, which is encouraged but not mandatory in most cases. However, it should not be a hindrance to the receiving of the sacrament.
Is there a special outfit for the celebration?
At baptism a white garment is normally provided by the family.
For children receiving First Holy Communion a simple white alb is provided - although children are allowed to wear there own choice of attire underneath.
There are no special dress requirements for other sacraments.
Can I request the anointing of the sick anytime?
Yes. If you are at home, you may arrange an appointment with the Parish Secretary.
If you are in hospital, a priest is will be on a rota and can visit you, though this may not be a priest from Christ the King.
You can arrange for a hospital visit from a priest at Christ the King by calling the Parish Office.
Visits are available at hospital regardless of how ill you are. These visits are not restricted to the dying.
I am not used to going to confession. What do I need to know?
It is very simple. Come as you are either at a scheduled time or with an appointment. Tell the priest that you are not a regular attender and he will guide you.
Try to express what you have in your heart, what you regret or makes you feel sad. Tell God, through the Priest, that you have a desire to change and to amend. The priest will never judge you, and it is totally confidential.
The priest might give you some advice to help you come closer to God. After saying a short prayer of contrition, he will give you absolution to forgive your sins in the name of God. You may then leave in peace. Expect to feel the joy of being forgiven!
Can I become a Catholic if I come from another religion or Christian denomination?
Both cases are very different. Christian: you’ve been baptized, just a ceremony of “reception.” In our parish, only one group of preparation for all adults, whether already baptized or not, but each person is take into consideration in a personal way.
My partner is not a Christian, can we still be married in Church?
Yes, only one of you needs to be Christian. The other partner has to be in full acceptance of the Christian orientation of the family. This includes an acceptance that your children should follow a Christian education.